Dating a man who has recently divorced after two years of dating
Having gone through an unsuccessful relationship, a recently divorced man is no different.
Being human, he is bound to reach out for company, and you may possibly figure on his radar. The precise reasons behind this may vary, but the vulnerable state of mind that follows a split is mostly the reason behind the man's inconsistent behavior.
I did forget to mention that he was recently divorced from his second wife, which he married within six months of knowing her and divorced not even two years later. Thank you for the reply and just think i needed some confirmation.
I was completely polite about his text and stated that I understood completely.... I never indicated that I was looking for a relationship and had even made the comment that I didn't not have any complications in my life at this time and would like to keepi it that way.
Emotional trauma and stress are an integral part of all divorce proceedings.
Additionally, there could be financial burdens as well.
Pushing him to be attentive towards your needs will drive him away, and frankly, it isn't even fair on either of you.
He may be in a phase where he just wants to vent out his resentment towards relationships or wants to enjoy his new-found freedom.
In both cases, you need to steer clear of being the unfortunate victim of his circumstances.
To begin with, it would be unfair to expect something long-term from a man who's just turned single, possibly after a long time.
A sound piece of advice would be to take each day as it comes, and not rush into anything, even if it feels like heaven every time you are together.
As we begin a new year, I wanted to send you a note of love, hope and encouragement for the path that you're on right now in your dating life.